Many of us come to abroad in a different stages of our life for better opportunity but to become successful in many ways- Its not easy as it seems. It might take a year and sometime it might take years or a decade.
Some people come here after high school, some after graduation or post graduate and some come after getting permanent residency. As you are in a different stages of life and its natural you will have different lifestyles.
In every stages of life, we have to understand that what life has to offer and what we are offering to our life makes a huge difference and your deeds will lead you shape your life on the long run.
As a marketer, Real Estate Personnel, Business owner, Brother, Son, Husband and Friends (only few close ones-
Lets face it, Its the harsh reality we carry with us everyday, but some people fake it, pretending to be someone else – fair enough). We meet many people everyday with different experience, lifestyle and career goals. As per our own life experience in life (education,
travelling, working and living everyday)- We learn from each other every step of the way.
Surround yourself with people who are real and leave those who pretend to be someone else.
Hang around with people who will become an asset in your life- helping you with your career goals, day to day learning, put you in a place where you grow and be happy.
we can’t make everyone happy- in fact we are not here to make everyone happy. If you are happy – everything around you seems beautiful and amazing. Be good to people but don’t try to impress others all the time- if you try to impress others and you always become people pleasure/ you can’t be happy. People pleasures often deal with low self-esteem and draw their self-worth from the approval of others. At the end of the day your happiness matters- it does not mean you hurt someone else.
Be yourself-people always have doubts and you will be tested.
In life, along the way you meet different kind of people. You will have hindrance, obstacles and naysayers. Find ways to hang around with right people and surround yourself with people you admire. Focus on everyday learning- read books- listen to podcasts and audio books etc.
I like learning everyday, if you are the same- lets catch up. Things get better when you get better.